Update from VCH #5419 6.24.09

I’m writing from the PCCU room # 5419 this morning.  It’s been a good morning overall.  I woke up early, around 7:00 a.m., and feel rested. 

Shannon, my Mom, and Shannon’s Mom got here about 10:00 a.m.  When they came in the room, Emme was crying for the first time this morning.  I know that was hard for them.  Coupled with her swollenness and sad face, it was a hard thing to walk into.  Shannon broke down and cried, as did his Mother.  I tried to forewarn that her face would be very swollen (even more than yesterday) and that it might be a little hard to take, but I don’t think it’s reality until you see it.  I haven’t broken down yet, but every time I get close, I remind myself that this will all be better in a week or so.  There are many children in this unit that don’t have such a good outlook.  It really puts life in to perspective. 

I want to express my gratitude to all who have prayed, sent well wishes, and called.  Many have asked how they can help.  It used to be hard for me to ask for help, but I’ve learned that it’s okay to accept love from those who extend it.  I know several of you are planning meals for when we get home from the hospital, but it occurred to me that it’s going to get very expensive here at the hospital eating out for every meal.  So, with that being said, if you want to come and visit and would like to bring a meal for us, we will accept.  Shannon’s cell phone number is 606.524.8028 if you want to call.

Tomorrow will most likely be the hardest day of our vacation here at Vanderbilt.  Emme will swell even more and she will become fussier because she is unable to open her eyes.  So far she has exceeded my expectations in the fussy area.  She has been very calm and only cries when it’s time for more pain medicine.  I tried again to give her formula this morning, but so far she only wants the Pedialyte.  As far as I’m concerned, she can have whatever she wants.  I do hope, however, that she decides to take some formula soon.

Shannon’s Mom plans to leave tonight and my Mom will be leaving on Saturday.  Both have taken time off from work to be here (I know they wouldn’t have it any other way) which can be very difficult.  I would like to express my gratitude to Muratec, First Baptist Church of Garland, and all of my Mom’s extended family for being so thoughtful.  Also, thanks to Shannon’s Mom’s clients who rearranged their schedules to allow her to be here with us.  Of course all of our family and friends have been great too.  It’s always hard to pinpoint who to thank, because you always leave someone out.  So with that being said, if I left you out, know that we still appreciate you.

That’s all the news for now, I’ll try to update later.